Thank-You Note Wording for Gifts: 80 Examples
A thank-you note for a gift only has one job: make the person who sent it feel like sending it was worth the trouble. That's it. You don't need perfect handwriting or a clever opening line. You need the gift named, one honest sentence about why it mattered, and your signature.
Most people freeze at the blank card. So below are 80 thank-you note wordings and thank you messages you can copy word for word, sorted by who you're writing to. There's also a short section on timing, what a note should actually contain, and a few real thank you gift baskets for the times a card by itself doesn't feel like enough.
What Goes in a Thank-You Note for a Gift
Every good note has four small parts. Learn these and you'll never need a template again.
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Greeting. "Dear Aunt Carol," or just "Carol," if you're close.
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Name the gift. Say what it was. "Thank you for the cast iron skillet" beats "thank you for the lovely gift" every single time.
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Say why it landed. One sentence. How you'll use it, how it made you feel, or when you thought of them.
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Close and sign. "Thanks again," "With love," "Gratefully yours." Then your name.
Four sentences is plenty. Three is fine. Nobody has ever complained that a thank you note was too short, and plenty of people never send one because they were waiting to write something long and impressive.
How Long Do You Have to Send It?
The old etiquette rule was two weeks. Wedding gifts got three months. In practice, send it as soon as you can, and if you're late, send it anyway. A note that arrives two months after the baby shower still beats the note that never comes because you were embarrassed. Open with "I've been meaning to write since the day this arrived" and move on.
General Thank You Messages for Gifts (1 to 12)
Use these when the relationship is warm but not intimate, or when you just need something that works.
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Thank you so much for the [gift]. It was such a thoughtful thing to do, and I appreciate you thinking of me.
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I can't tell you how much I loved the wonderful gift. You always seem to know exactly what I'd pick for myself.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It's already sitting on my desk where I can see it every day.
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What a lovely surprise. Thank you for the generous gift and for the note that came with it.
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Your gift made my whole week. Thank you for the [gift], and for being the kind of person who remembers.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I've used it three times already, which should tell you how much I needed it.
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I opened your package and laughed out loud. Thank you for the [gift] and for knowing my taste so well.
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Thank you for the lovely gift. It's exactly the sort of thing I'd never buy myself, which makes it even better.
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I'm so grateful for such a thoughtful gift. Thank you for the thought behind it.
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Thank you for the [gift]. Small gestures like this go a long way, and yours made all the difference.
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The [gift] arrived safely and it's wonderful. Thank you for going to the trouble.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I'm still smiling about it.
Thank You Wording for Family (13 to 22)
With family you can be looser. Warmth beats polish here.
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Thank you for the [gift], Mom. You still spoil me and I'm not going to pretend I mind.
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Dad, the [gift] was the perfect gift. Thank you. I'll think of you every time I use it.
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Thank you, Grandma. The [gift] is going straight into the kitchen where it belongs.
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Thanks for such a thoughtful gift. You've been giving me exactly the right thing since I was six years old.
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Aunt [Name], thank you for the [gift]. It's so you, and I love it.
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Thank you for the [gift]. Family that shows up like this is a lucky thing to have.
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The kids have not stopped playing with the [gift]. Thank you from all of us.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for making the trip. Having you here was the better gift, honestly.
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You didn't have to do this and you did it anyway. Thank you for such a gift.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I'm keeping it forever, and yes, I mean that literally.
Professional and Work Thank You Notes (23 to 34)
Keep these shorter and drop the exclamation points. One is fine. Three reads frantic.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It was a generous gesture and it did not go unnoticed.
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I appreciate the [gift] and, more than that, your support means a great deal. Thank you.
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Thank you for the thoughtful present. It's a pleasure working with a team that pays attention.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I'm grateful for the opportunity to work with you this year.
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The [gift] was a lovely surprise. Thank you for thinking of the whole team.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for your continued partnership. Looking forward to next year.
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I want to thank you for the [gift]. Your recognition has had such a positive impact on the team.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It arrived at exactly the right moment in a busy week.
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On behalf of the department, thank you for the [gift]. It was shared and thoroughly enjoyed.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I appreciate your generosity and your confidence in our work.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It's been a genuine pleasure collaborating with your team.
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Thank you for making our work easier this year, and thank you for the [gift]. We don't take it lightly.
If you're the one sending in the other direction, the same rules apply to what you send. Our corporate gift baskets get ordered most heavily in September and October, well before anyone else starts thinking about it.
Birthday Gift Thank You Messages (35 to 44)
A birthday gift thank you can be short and a little funny. That's the one occasion where nobody expects solemnity.
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Thank you for the birthday gift and for all the birthday wishes. You made turning [age] a lot easier.
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The [gift] was an amazing birthday gift. Thank you for knowing exactly what I wanted.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for coming to the birthday party. Both were the best part of my week.
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Thank you for the perfect gift. It's already in use and it's already my favorite thing.
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I'm forever grateful for friends who show up with cake and a [gift]. Thank you.
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Thank you for the [gift]. Best gift of the day, and I'm not just saying that.
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Thank you for the thoughtful present and the card. You made the whole day feel like a celebration.
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The [gift] was such a lovely surprise. Thank you for making my birthday so much fun.
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Thank you for the generous gift. Your support means more to me than the gift itself, though the gift is fantastic.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It's absolutely perfect and I have no idea how you guessed.
Christmas and Holiday Gift Thank Yous (45 to 54)
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Thank you for the wonderful christmas gift. It was the nicest thing under the tree.
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Thank you for the [gift]. Christmas at our house was better because of you.
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The [gift] was such a thoughtful gift. Thank you for thinking of us during the busiest month of the year.
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Thank you for the christmas gift and for the you card. Both are on the mantel where everyone can see them.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It made all the difference in a hectic holiday week.
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Your generous gift was deeply appreciated. Thank you and happy new year from all of us.
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Thank you for the wonderful christmas gift. We opened it Christmas morning and it stole the show.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for the tradition of always remembering us. It's incredibly thoughtful.
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Thank you for the awesome gift. The kids have claimed it as theirs, which I hope you'll take as a compliment.
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Thank you for the [gift]. The gift brought a lot of joy to a quiet holiday.
Wedding Gift Thank You Wording (55 to 62)
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Thank you for the generous wedding gift and for celebrating with us. Our home already looks better because of you.
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We're so grateful for the wedding gift. Thank you for being part of our day.
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Thank you for the [gift]. Every time we use it we'll think of you standing there watching us say I do.
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Your generosity floored us. Thank you for the generous wedding gift and for traveling so far to be with us.
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Thank you for the wedding gift. Married life is off to a very well-equipped start.
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We loved having you there, and we love the [gift]. Thank you for both.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It's already earned a permanent spot in the kitchen.
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Thank you for the wedding gift and for your kind words. We'll remember both for a long time.
Baby Shower and New Baby Thank Yous (63 to 70)
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Thank you for the [gift]. [Baby's name] is already growing into it faster than we expected.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for celebrating with us at the baby shower before he arrived.
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We can't thank you enough for the [gift]. It's been in constant rotation.
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Thank you for the [gift]. New parents run on caffeine and kindness, and you provided the second one.
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What you did for us at the baby shower meant the world. Thank you for the [gift].
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Thank you for the [gift] and for the advice that came with it. Both are getting used.
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We're so grateful for the [gift]. Thank you for thinking of us during a very loud few months.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It's the softest thing in the whole nursery.
Thank You Notes After Illness, Loss, or a Hard Stretch (71 to 80)
These are the hardest ones and the ones people most often skip. Keep them plain. Nobody expects eloquence from someone going through it.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It arrived on a rough day and it helped more than you know.
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Thank you for thinking of our family during this time. The [gift] was a real comfort.
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I'm not up to writing much yet, but I wanted you to know the [gift] meant a great deal.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for checking in. Both mattered.
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Thank you for the [gift]. Knowing people were thinking of us made such a difference this week.
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Your kindness has been steady through all of this. Thank you for the [gift].
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Thank you for the [gift]. We're taking things slowly, and gestures like yours help.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for not asking me to explain how I'm doing.
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The [gift] fed us for three days when cooking was out of the question. Thank you.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I'll write more when I can, but I didn't want to wait to say it.
If you're writing in the other direction and need message wording rather than thank you note wording, we have a full list of sympathy card messages and another for care package ideas when someone needs more than a card.
When a Thank You Card Isn't Quite Enough
Here's the practical trade-off, and it's the part most gift guides skip. A written note is the right answer maybe 90 percent of the time. It's personal, it costs almost nothing, and it's what etiquette actually asks for. Sending a gift back in response can turn a warm exchange into a scorekeeping contest, and that's a real risk with family.
The exception is when someone did something disproportionate. They covered a hospital bill, watched your kids for a week, or drove eleven hours for your wedding. A card alone reads thin against that. In those cases, send the note and a small gift, and let the note do the emotional work while the gift just says thank you out loud.
What not to send: anything that creates a chore. Live plants for someone who travels, fragile glass for someone with a toddler, or a huge basket to a studio apartment with no counter space. Food that keeps is the safer bet, and it's why bakery boxes outsell everything else in our thank you gift basket collection.
Real Thank You Gifts and What They Cost
Prices as of August 2026.
Gift
Best for
Price
A neighbor or a teacher
$53.95
A safe choice for anyone
$62.99
Chocolate people
$64.99
An office or a whole household
$76.95
Someone who likes less-sweet pastry
$77.99
A big favor that needs a big thank you
$119.95
The tin and box formats travel better than open baskets, which is worth knowing if it's going by mail rather than by hand.
Three Small Things That Make a Thank You Note Better
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Handwrite it if you can. An email is fine and a text is acceptable between close friends, but ink on paper still reads as effort.
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Skip the apology. "Sorry this is so late" as an opener puts your guilt in front of their generosity. Lead with the thanks and mention the delay at the end, if at all.
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Don't lie about liking it. If the sweater isn't your color, thank them for the thought and the trouble instead. "You went out of your way for me" is always true.
Whether it's a wedding, a new house, or a milestone anniversary, the wording changes less than you'd think. If you need ideas for the gift itself, our housewarming gift guide and our anniversary gifts by year list cover the two occasions that generate the most thank you notes. You can also browse everything we ship at gift basket delivery.
Now go write the card. It'll take you four minutes, and it'll be the nicest thing that happens to somebody this week.
More Thank You Wording by Situation
The categories above cover most cards. These next ones come up often enough that it's worth having wording ready, and each situation has its own small rules about tone and length.
Thank You Notes for Teachers
Teachers get a lot of mugs. What they remember is a specific sentence about your kid. Name the thing the teacher actually did, and the note becomes something they keep in a desk drawer for years.
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Thank you for the gift and for the patience you showed [child] all year. It made all the difference.
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Thank you for everything you've done this year. [Child] talks about your class at dinner every night.
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We appreciate you more than a card can say. Thank you for such a positive impact on our family.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for making reading fun again. That's not a small thing.
Thank You Messages for a Host or Hostess
Send this one within a week of the dinner or the weekend stay. A host gift is nice, but the note is what gets you invited back.
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Thank you for having us. The food, the company, and the [gift] you sent us home with were all perfect.
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Thank you for opening your home to us. We had so much fun and we're still talking about it.
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Thank you for a wonderful weekend. You made it look effortless, which I know it wasn't.
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Thank you for the lovely evening and the thoughtful present. We owe you a dinner.
Graduation and Milestone Thank Yous
Graduation notes are the ones most likely to be skipped, usually because there are forty of them. Write four a day and you'll be done in a week and a half.
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Thank you for the graduation gift. Your support means a lot as I start this next part.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for coming to the ceremony. I'm forever grateful for the people who showed up.
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Thank you for the generous gift. It's going straight toward my first apartment, which I promise is a good use.
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Thank you for believing in me before there was much evidence. And thank you for the [gift].
Thank You Notes to a Coworker or Neighbor
Keep these light. A short thank you note between coworkers should read like a good email, not a greeting card.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It was an incredibly thoughtful thing to do on a busy week.
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Thank you for covering for me. The [gift] was unnecessary and deeply appreciated all the same.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for being the neighbor who actually notices things. It's rare.
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Thank you for the [gift]. You've made this office a much better place to be.
Thank You Wording for a Get Well Gift
These can be the shortest of all. Nobody recovering from surgery owes anyone a paragraph.
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Thank you for the [gift]. It brightened up a very boring hospital room.
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Thank you for thinking of me. The gift brought a lot of comfort on a hard week.
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Thank you for the [gift] and for the visit. Both helped more than you know.
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Thank you for the [gift]. I'm on the mend and your kindness is part of the reason.
Common Thank You Note Problems, Solved
Most of the questions we get about thank you note wording aren't really about wording. They're about awkward situations where the usual script doesn't fit. Here's how to handle the five that come up most.
How to Thank Someone for Money
Never write the amount. Write what you're doing with it instead. "Thank you for the generous gift, which is going toward the down payment" tells them their money mattered without turning the note into a receipt.
If you haven't decided what to spend it on yet, say that honestly. "We're saving it for the kitchen we keep talking about" is a perfectly good answer, and it gives them something to ask about next time you see them.
Is a Thank You Email or Text Acceptable?
Between close friends and most coworkers, yes. Speed counts for something, and a same-day text beats a card that shows up in three weeks. For weddings, funerals, big money, and anyone over about seventy, write it by hand.
The rule I'd give: match the formality of the gift. Someone dropped off cookies, text them. Someone gave you a check at your wedding, get out the pen.
What If You Didn't Like the Gift?
Thank them for the effort, not the object. "You went to so much trouble" and "I love that you thought of me" are both true statements that don't require you to fake enthusiasm about a sweater you'll never wear.
Do not promise to use it. That's how you end up displaying a ceramic rooster every time they visit for the next decade.
Thanking a Group for a Group Gift
Write one note to the group and, if you can, a second short line to whoever organized it. Organizing a group gift is real work and it's almost never acknowledged.
If the group is a whole office, send something shareable rather than a stack of cards. A box that lands in the break room does the job better than twelve individual notes nobody has time to read.
Do You Still Send a Note If You Thanked Them in Person?
For a small gift, no. Saying thank you at the time is enough. For a wedding gift, a substantial check, or anything shipped to you, send the note anyway. The sender wants to know it arrived, and the note doubles as confirmation.
That's the whole system. Name the gift, say one true thing, sign it, send it. The people who are good at this aren't better writers than you. They're just faster to the mailbox.
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